The Driving Force

Fueling the Journey Back to My True Passion

From a young age, I was told that if I put my mind to something, I could achieve it. And so, with a head full of dreams and a heart full of ambition, I set my sights on becoming an Air Force pilot. I studied hard, earned a degree, and received my commission. But life, as it often does, had other plans. The Soviet Union fell, and the demand for Air Force pilots dropped, leaving me on an unexpected flight plan. My ambition stayed the same, but my direction changed.

Ambition is the fuel that propels us forward, even when our plans get diverted. After leaving the Air Force, I chased success in business, started several companies, and earned a master’s degree. I wore many hats, including those of database administrator, financial advisor, realtor, and general contractor. I followed opportunity wherever it appeared. But something was always missing.

The ambition I once had for aviation never died; it was simply suppressed by life’s demands, relationships, and the struggle to maintain financial security. I made several personal and career mistakes. I married too young. I listened to others’ opinions more than my own. And for a long time, I chased the dreams of someone I wasn’t meant to be. But ambition has a funny way of whispering louder with age. And when I finally listened, I realized the truth: I never wanted to give up flying; I just hadn’t realized it yet.

In my late forties, I took a bold step. I reduced my income, lived frugally on savings, and restarted flight training. It has taken years, more than I expected, and hundreds of hours of flying to become a certified flight instructor, where I continue to work, learn, and accumulate more flight hours in hopes of flying the big aluminum. It has not been easy, but when ambition is paired with self-discipline and persistence, the unlikely becomes possible.

Writing “Flight Plan for Success” was born from that same drive. I wanted to share the lessons I’ve learned, both the good and the hard-earned, with young people on the brink of adulthood. My goal now is to help others find their way and remind them that diversions don’t mean failure; they’re just part of the story.

Ambition never truly leaves us. It is in us, waiting patiently, like a co-pilot, ready to assist when we’re prepared to soar again. I am living proof, and I’m just getting started.

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